Proactive, Calm, and Confident Full-Time Nanny for Family in Haddonfield, New Jersey

Start: ASAP (flexible for the right fit)

Compensation: $30-$40/hour (based on experience)

Schedule: Monday, Thursday, Friday: 3:00pm–9:00pm Saturday & Sunday: 12:00pm–9:00pm *Approximately 36 guaranteed hours per week*

Description: 

About the Family:

A warm, active, and thoughtful family in Haddonfield, NJ is seeking an experienced, confident, and emotionally regulated full-time nanny to support their 7-year-old identical twin boys. The family values structure, clear communication, and proactive support, and they are looking for a nanny who brings both warmth and steadiness to the home.

The twins have Level 1 Autism with a PDA profile. They are energetic, athletic, intelligent, and do well in school. They thrive with structure, predictable routines, and regular outings, and benefit from caregivers who are calm under pressure, adaptable, and confident navigating moments of escalation with compassion and consistency.

Both parents work from home, with Dad splitting time between home, an office setting, and frequent travel. Mom works light hours from home. The family is seeking a nanny who is comfortable working alongside parents when needed, while also taking confident ownership of the children’s care, routines, and activities during scheduled hours.

The children attend school Monday–Friday from 8:30am–3:00pm. Afternoons, evenings, and weekends are active and engaging, with seasonal activities that include soccer multiple days per week, therapy on Fridays after school, piano lessons on Saturdays, reading and math tutoring on Sundays, and golf lessons. The family would love a nanny who enjoys staying active, supporting transitions, and helping the boys move through busy schedules smoothly and calmly.

The family has one pet: a 5-year-old Golden Doodle, affectionately described as a gentle giant. There are no household dietary restrictions or allergies.

Ideal Candidate:

The family is seeking a nanny who is:

• Proactive, energetic, and enjoys staying engaged

• Patient, calm under pressure, and emotionally regulated

• Flexible, adaptable, and confident managing dynamic schedules

• Loving and compassionate, while also being firm and consistent

• A proactive self-starter who doesn’t fluster easily

• Kind, confident, and secure in setting boundaries

• Comfortable supporting outings, activities, and transitions

• Interested in a long-term role and building trust with the family

This role is ideal for a nanny who enjoys working with school-aged children and takes pride in being a steady, grounding presence in an active household.

Responsibilities:

Childcare & Family Support:

• Provide attentive, structured, and engaging care for twin boys

• Support after-school, evening, and weekend routines

• Transport children to and from activities and appointments

• Engage children in physical activity, play, and enriching outings

• Support emotional regulation and positive behavioral strategies

• Maintain consistency, structure, and calm during transitions

• Prepare meals and snacks for the children

• Support evening routines 

Household Support (Child-Focused Priority):

• Errands as needed

• Light housekeeping and general tidying

• Laundry

• Meal preparation

• Dishes and kitchen tidying

• Preparing lunches for the following day

Additional Needs:

• Comfortable traveling domestically, including trips to the family’s Ocean City home, as needed

• Must have a reliable personal vehicle for commuting (driveway parking available)

• A family vehicle is available for on-the-job use

Schedule:

• Monday, Thursday, Friday: 3:00pm–9:00pm

• Saturday & Sunday: 12:00pm–9:00pm

• Approximately 36 guaranteed hours per week

Compensation & Benefits:

• $30–$40/hour

• Guaranteed hours

• Paid vacation days

• Paid sick days

• Paid holidays

• Annual raise

• Long-term incentive bonus (minimum 2-year commitment)

• Open to a healthcare stipend

Qualifications:

• Prior professional childcare experience

• Confident, calm, and emotionally regulated caregiving style

• Strong communication and organizational skills

• Safe, confident driver with a reliable personal vehicle

• Excellent references from previous families

• Legally authorized to work in the U.S.

This is a wonderful opportunity for an experienced, proactive, and grounded nanny who enjoys active children, values structure, and is looking for a meaningful, long-term role with a warm and appreciative family.