Full-Time Family Assistant / Nanny for a Busy Family in McLean, VA
Start: ASAP, for the right fit
Children: Two children, ages 8 and 3
Compensation: $35–$45/hour (based on experience)
Schedule: Monday-Friday 9/10am – 5/6pm.
Description:
Full-Time Family Assistant / Nanny for a Busy Family in McLean, VA
Children: Two children, ages 8 and 3
Compensation: $35–$45/hour (based on experience)
Schedule: Monday-Friday 9/10am – 5/6pm.
Description
About the Family
A thoughtful, warm, and highly engaged family in McLean, VA is seeking a confident, capable Family Assistant/Nanny to support their household and two young children. The family values structure, organization, and emotional warmth, and is looking for someone who can partner closely with them to keep both the children’s lives and the household running smoothly.
Their 8-year-old son is bright, sweet, and enthusiastic. He thrives with patience, predictability, and gentle structure—especially during transitions. He loves Legos, building projects, chess, video games, and creative problem-solving, and he is deeply affectionate with his younger sister. Social dynamics can be more challenging for him, but he has made tremendous progress over the past few years and does best with calm, confident adult guidance. He attends school from 8:00 am–3:30 pm and participates in after-school activities and enrichment programs such as chess club.
Their nearly 3-year-old daughter is a spirited, sweet, and strong-willed toddler with big emotions and a big personality. She attends a Montessori preschool and the occasionally after school activity or appointment. She loves animals, pretend play, and hands-on activities, and benefits from a caregiver who is warm, playful, and steady with boundaries. She typically attends school from 8:00/8:30 am until around 4:00–4:30 pm, with extended care available as needed.
Both parents work hybrid schedules. Dad works from home frequently but may travel for extended periods due to his work. Mom works a hybrid schedule with a mix of home and office days. The family also has two friendly large dogs—a laid-back golden retriever who loves attention and a younger, higher-energy lab.
This family describes their ideal caregiver as warm with the children and resourceful and confident within the household—someone who can “roll with the punches,” remain unfazed by big emotions, and take meaningful ownership of family systems to help reduce the parents’ mental load.
About the Role
This is a true Family Assistant/Nanny position combining childcare, household management, and logistical support. The role requires someone who enjoys balancing hands-on care with behind-the-scenes organization and who feels confident taking initiative. The family plans to bring in a professional organizer to help establish systems and is seeking a long-term caregiver who can help maintain and evolve those systems over time.
A family-provided sedan is available for on-the-job driving.
Key Responsibilities
Children’s Care & Support
Providing warm, attentive, developmentally appropriate care for both children
Supporting smooth transitions throughout the day
Assisting with after-school routines, activities, and therapy appointments
Encouraging play, creativity, and emotional regulation
Supporting healthy routines while maintaining structure and clear expectations
Household Management
Whole-family laundry, including folding and organizing
Kitchen tidying and maintaining organized, functional common areas
Light home tidying and organization
Seasonal clothing inventory for the children
Household inventory and restocking essentials
Managing contractors and being present for repair or service appointments
Taking out garbage and supporting general household flow
Meal Prep & Errands
Meal prep for the children (and family meal prep if the nanny enjoys cooking)
Grocery shopping and meal planning
Running household errands as needed
Pet Care
Letting dogs out into the backyard and providing light pet support
Ideal Candidate
The family is looking for someone who:
Has experience as a nanny or family assistant, ideally with both toddlers and school-aged children
Is calm, warm, confident, and emotionally steady
Is unfazed by big emotions and skilled at maintaining structure with kindness
Is proactive, organized, and enjoys taking ownership of household systems
Communicates clearly and professionally with parents
Is resourceful, adaptable, and able to anticipate household needs
Enjoys being a true partner to the family and reducing overall mental load
Compensation & Benefits
Hourly Rate: $35–$45/hour
Schedule: Monday-Friday 9/10am – 5/6pm.
Paid Time Off:
Paid vacation days
Paid sick days
Paid holidays
Healthcare stipend
This is an excellent long-term opportunity for a capable, emotionally intelligent Family Assistant/Nanny who enjoys supporting both children and household systems and is excited to grow with a thoughtful, collaborative family.